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Cast Away

June 6, 2007 urngarden.com

As cremation has overtaken burial in California — about 52 percent of the dead are cremated, according to the National Funeral Directors Association — scatterings of remains have become a daily occurrence. Without anybody really noticing, San Francisco Bay has become an enormous burial ground.

Scatterings are done from boats, cliffs and the Golden Gate Bridge. Cemetery owner Buck Kamphausen said it is not unusual to see remains scattered off the back of ferries. He has found urns bobbing in the water. “We’ve done it at night, in the fog, in the rain. You have to say that if there is something spiritual about it, this is one of the most beautiful places in the world to have it done.”

Cremation does not appeal to everybody.

Mark Matthews, vice president of the Association of California Cremationists, said that for a variety of cultural reasons, Latinos and African Americans are less likely to cremate than other Californians. And he said higher-income people are more likely to cremate than people with less money. Several religions, including Judaism and Mormonism, frown on cremation. Islam forbids it.

“There are a lot of people that have died and are in the Bay,” said Curtis Brown, captain and operator of the Orca III, “Over the recent years, I’m sure there have been more people scattered in the water than buried in the Bay Area. I go out near the ocean, so ultimately the ashes can be scattered on the tides throughout the world. It’s kind of a liberating, freeing thing.”

Ashes dispersed off the Orca III in San Fransisco Bay, Angel Island in the background.

Today’s tip for better living: Perfect your swimming stroke.

Filed Under: ash scattering, cremation, Memorial Service Ideas, urns Tagged With: Memorial Service Ideas, scattering ashes at sea

You CAN Take It With You

June 5, 2007 urngarden.com

Today we bring you a list of items that families have placed in the casket of their loved ones compiled by an Ohio funeral director :

  • fishing rods
  • bow and arrow
  • golf clubs
  • golf balls
  • basketballs
  • autographed baseballs
  • baseball gloves
  • baseball, football and basketball uniforms
  • unloaded handguns, rifles and shotguns
  • decks of cards
  • bingo cards
  • lucky pennies
  • room keys from Las Vegas
  • cigarettes
  • marijuana joints
  • pet rocks
  • favorite books
  • a tape recorder
  • a glass eye
  • sexual devices
  • jewelry
  • fruit
  • nuts
  • photographs
  • leaf collections
  • coin collections
  • Penthouse, Playboy and raunchier varieties of magazines
  • Cremated remains of cats and dogs
  • Panties
  • Money

Filed Under: Confessions, funeral service, Memorial Service Ideas, mental health, Sports, urns Tagged With: funeral send off, funeral service, memento mori, mementos in the casket, memorial ideas

Put Some Clothes On!

May 30, 2007 urngarden.com

Starmark Funeral Products recently conducted a nationwide survey of 400 people who planned to be cremated. The goal of the survey was to discover consumer preferences with regard to cremation services, caskets and urns.

Whether it’s vanity or modesty, more than 75% want to be clothed when cremated and most want to be dressed in meaningful attire.

Eighty percent would like to avoid a public viewing.

79% would like to have a religious leader, friend or family member preside over their service, whether it’s a full blown funeral or simple memorial service.

73% were not aware that “rental caskets” are available at most funeral homes for open or closed-casket services followed by cremation.

When asked if they would like to use a funeral home chapel for their family gathering, nearly half said no.

The tough decision was what to do with the ashes. In various questions regarding the final resting place:

77% preferred scattering in a special place.

35% would leave it up to the family.

58% would like to avoid being left with the family.

Only 4% would like to be placed in an urn in a loved one’s home.

Full survey results here.

Many of our families are not sure what they are going to do with the ashes. Some plan to spread or scatter at a later date. It’s not uncommon for families that have been holding the ashes for a couple of years to finally make a decision and purchase an urn.

Make your wishes known.

Today’s tip for better living: Get your clothes laid out for tomorrow.

Filed Under: Advertising, ash scattering, Confessions, cremation, funeral service, Memorial Service Ideas, mental health, urns Tagged With: caskets, consumer preferences, cremation survey, memorial service

Goodbye Casey

May 29, 2007 urngarden.com

Our hearts go out to the family of Casey Adams of Santa Rosa, CA who was killed this past weekend on a camping trip. 26 years old. Here’s the sketchy heart breaking story.

We’re noticing a trend of MySpace pages that are turning into online memorials and video tributes uploaded to YouTube. There’s even an archive of deceased Myspace members on My Death Space page.

Virginia Tech set up an official Virginia Tech MySpace page days after the shooting and more than 7650 people listed themselves as friends of that page.

A West Virginia blogger started a collection of personal web sites and MySpace pages of Virginia Tech victims. West Virginia blogger says, “I am doing this in good taste. I hope it doesn’t offend anyone. The reason behind this is that it’s one thing to hear a list of names on TV, or read them online, but if you take a second to view a bit of the persons personal life it will give you a deeper understanding of that person.”

Filed Under: Advertising, Confessions, cremation, funeral service, Memorial Service Ideas, mental health, obituaries, urns Tagged With: Casey Adams, My Death Space, Online funeral tributes, online memorials, Video tributes

A Hui Kaua Kevin Curran

May 24, 2007 urngarden.com

Our deepest sympathies to the Curran family on the loss of Kevin.

Curran, 42, of Ozark, Mo., died Saturday after the rental car he was driving plunged 140 feet off a West Maui cliff into the ocean while on his honeymoon. He would have been 43 today.

The couple married May 5 in Eureka Springs, Ark., and arrived on Maui on May 13.

Maui police reported that on Saturday, May 19th, Curran was driving a 2006 Ford Mustang southbound on Honoapiilani Highway in West Maui when the car ran off the road during a left turn and landed in the ocean 140 feet below.

Survivors include his wife Jill, two daughters, age 13 and 16; parents; two brothers; two sisters; and several nieces and nephews.

Heartbreaking story in the Star Bulletin

Filed Under: ash scattering, cremation, mental health, obituaries, urns Tagged With: Kevin Curran

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