This weekend was the peak of fall color here in the Ozarks. We’ve got a golden glow and the fading light can mess with your mood. Opals are October’s birth stone and is nature’s prescription to Zoloft with supposed healing powers for depression. Almost all the opals are mined in Australia and an Aborigine legend has it that the stone originated in a rainbow. They also associate the Opal with peace and love.
Making a Memory Jar Pt. 2
The modern day memory jar evolved from the old slave custom of making a memory jug to serve as a grave site memorial. We’ve showcased my friend Susan’s memory jars with a brief tutorial on the process. Creating a message in a bottle can be quite tedious and depending on the size of the jar, require an extensive collection of treasure to adorn it. Susan has switched up her technique and started using a black grout instead of the white. I love the look.
She’s embedded button covers, ear rings and pendants, old jewelry, and interesting bits of metal. These jars are so visually rich and is a good way for a hoarder to cull a collection of artifacts and recycle old flower vases and jars into a work of art. Susan works a section at a time and recommends laying out the area you plan to cover ahead of time, so that once you lay the grout down you can start applying the ornaments and keep the project moving.
More of Susan’s work can be seen here:
Ya Gotta Pay Repects: Goodbye Jim Wunderle
Urns on Sale: Falling Leaves Cremation Urn
If fall was a favorite time of the year for your loved one, Falling Leaves urn for ashes is a more masculine style that represents the changing season of life. Gun metal gray finish with contrasting silver engraved leaves makes a quiet strong statement about the spirit it honors.
Made from metal, the urn will not only provide secure storage for the ashes, it’s suitable for burial at the cemetery or attractive enough for home display. Engraved name tags and keepsake urn sizes are available to store smaller portions of ash.
Visit Urn Garden to see more styles of fine art metal urns that reflect and honor the seasons of life.
Size Does Matter at the Cemetery! How to Find an Urn to Fit the Niche
We’ve had several calls from customers trying to find a cremation urn that will fit into an odd shaped niche at the cemetery. It can be challenging to find an urn to fit.
Is it by design so that you have to buy from the cemetery? Some of the spaces have been quite tricky, especially when the customer is seeking an urn that will hold the remains of two people.
If you have selected a tight space, you will probably have to buy a box style for the ashes. This would apply to compartments that are 9-10″ high. Most of the traditional vase shaped urns are range 10-12″ high and will not fit in the smaller spaces.
Veteran Cemeteries
One of the benefits available to veterans is that their spouses and eligible dependents can be interred at no charge in national cemeteries.
However, the sizes at veteran cemeteries have been a little easier to work with regarding trying to fit 2 sets of ashes into one space. A niche in Arlington National cemetery was 13H x 10W x 18D. These dimensions allowed for ample room to place standard size cremation urns, regardless of the shape, vase or box container. I decided to call our local Veteran’s Cemetery and see what the story was there on the sizes they offered.
This particular cemetery is located in Missouri and has two walls of vaults. One is full, the other has about a thousand spaces available. All the niche dimensions are the same 10″W x 14″ H x 19″ D. But according to the source I spoke to at the cemetery office, the measurements of military niches are not standard across the nation, which seems hard to believe.
Missouri is still primarily a burial state, but regarding cremation interment, families tend to trend to the columbarium wall. At this particular cemetery, no wood urns can be stored in the above ground niche. No vault or outer container is needed for ground burial, and any material, including wood or ceramic can be placed in the grave. There’s no scattering garden here, but she said some families choose to use the uniform upright memorials provided by the US government.
By the way, I asked her how she pronounced “niche”. She calls it “nitch”. Me, I say “neesh”. I think both are correct. How do you pronounce it?
Regardless of how you say it, Urn Garden carries an urn that will fit, even if we have to custom order it. One size that’s almost always a perfect fit for an odd shaped niche and makes an affordable memorial is the Companion Double Wood Urn. Very basic, no frills, this compact style will hold the ashes of two people and fit into most niche spaces, but only if the cemetery allows placement of a wood urn in the wall.